Monday, 19 January 2009

Submissive girls bore me

Friend: What's up girl?
JJ: He stood me up again.
Friend: Again?
JJ: Um hmmm.
Friend: Well whats up with this guy? Do you really like him that much?
JJ: Yes, honey, I love him! He is fine, he does a lot of nice things for me.
Friend: I know he used to do nice stuff for you, but what has he done for you lately?

Have you ever noticed that when your girlfriends put the name of a boy they are dating under the "in a relationship with" option on facebook and you click on that guy, his profile picture is him sans girlfriend? However, your girlfriend's profile pictures consists of them together or even in some crazy cases, the boyfriend himself?

Now I'm not l'Ă©minence grise on relationships, however, take it from Janet (who has been empowering women worldwide since 1982) and ask your man: what have you done for me lately?


  1. you should write books about this. Honestly.

  2. Being single, i rarely get to do something special for fairer sex. But just the other day a thought occured to me, and it kind of relates...
    Here I found myself sitting on the metro, when a woman walks in only to find herself standing somewhat annoyed at the lack of seating.
    On one side, I want to let her take my spot and be the gentleman, but just earlier that day I was overhearing the longest speech/argument about gender equality. Why should I have to be nice to a stranger only based on the fact that she is a woman. I should not treat her differently based on gender. Now had she been 96yrs old and struggling to stand, a different story - Had she asked me for the seat - i would have been more than happy to have given it to her. All of this simply to say, sure, I'd like to do something nice for the ladies, not expecting anything back. Now if only you could all do the same for me. =)